Paris Hilton
Amir Ragporker asked:


Paris Hilton is the truth that people are unhappy. Why is that you ask? Well, why do people even look at that skinny girl? Beside the fact that she is rich? She is the perfect reflection of a girl’s life today. Girls find themselves in her, and those who don’t, try to become like her.

And now for the real deal…

Here is a powerful secret that everyone holds in their minds. Most of the people are surprised to hear it, be free to vomit after you hear it. But realizing it as the truth will transform your life forever.

In some philosophical and subconscious way, we want to be unhappy. We are addicted to be unhappy so we could keep on running after happiness. Ironically the moments that we are happy are so sad for us because we came into some peak in life. A peak that might never return.

We love the past, we live in the past and we remind ourselves and our friends and family how the past was wonderful. But, the truth is, we don’t want the past, we just want to feel like the past!

We all want to fell young, powerful, and confident. But instead of lingering in this moment we look back and spoor on ourselves the need to be as happy as we were back in the days.

The people who are truly happy in this Universe are the people who never think about themselves. They live the moment. They do things all the time. They never have time to think about themselves.

The people who think about themselves have a lot of time and because they are so bored they fire up a circle of thinking about themselves.

Those people are in the need for happiness. Their emotion is based on the need to be happy and they always feel the need not the having it.

People who are unhappy will always miss the moment that just passed by. They live in their past, even a powerful and happy moment immediately becomes a sad moment as it passes by quickly.

In Psychological level, people don’t want to be happy. People need a challenge and when you are happy, you knocked the biggest challenge of your life. Now, your life will be boring as your challenges are gone.

That’s why people always look for the next challenge and again spill lots of sadness on themselves until they actually get to the new goal they set themselves.

People can’t just sit back and enjoy their goal fulfilled. The people who are happy all the time, put on new goals all the time but are also very thankful for the things they already accomplished. They unleash the feeling of having nothing at all.

Pull up a fight

People love to fight with each other. Fight is something that gives human being a lot of happiness for some reason. This reason is inside a person’s mind, the pressure walks out with every step from left to right.

Happiness is like a fight. People love to fight, so that is why they pull up a fight to get to happiness and don’t understand that happiness is already here.

Philosophical happiness

Philosophy and happiness never seemed to go hand in hand especially when, people are involved. As I wrote, people who think about themselves always are unhappy, that’s why many philosophers were unhappy.

To think about the Universe and people and themselves make people sick. But to dwell on happiness is something they missed.

Happiness, me and you

Happiness is located inside a person’s mind, while love is placed in the heart… But what does it mean “in the mind”? It means it is our thoughts, if you click on the comedy channel in your head, I promise a wonderful life. But if you prefer to watch, “The Bold and The Beautiful” inside your brain, don’t expect much.

So, I am about to reveal one of the biggest secrets of happiness… brace yourself, take a breath. And now, In order to find happiness, people have to become the happiness. If you love to play basketball, play it whenever you can and enjoy every little minute of it. If you love to write like myself, just do it (Even if no one cares…).

When you do something you love and also use your mind, the harmony is strong, powerful and suddenly happiness says hello.

All of a sudden you will laugh more, feel the excitement inside you and above all feel so alive, the past and future will be a happy one and nothing on the face of earth will make you sad. You will feel happiness in a way you didn’t imagine was true.



Tim
Feb
13
Paris Hilton
Hilton Paul asked:


 

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It’s not just the price of petrol and the torture chambers of public transport.

 

Not the Lotto-like odds of finding parking nor the chances of getting a ticket costing more than a tank full of gas…

 

Not the time you already don’t have.

 

Not even the fact that most of the shops don’t have it in your size or that colour. Some of them don’t even have anything close to IT.

 

And we won’t mention the attitude of certain shop-assistants.

 

But what we will say is: IT’S ALL SO NOT NECESSARY.

 

While there’s nothing new about shopping on-line what makes ClothingStoreOnline.com.au special is the designers it brings together on a single pain-free site.

 

In this same, sane place are some of Australia’s best young designers.  Not the same-same people doing the same stuff, but edgy, fresh, confronting and sometimes dangerously different people who didn’t get their ideas from Harry Who – or whoever he got his ideas from. 

 

The designers gathered at ClothingStoreOline.com.au make it for guys, girls and anyone still deciding. They have kids’, babies’ and, with chain-of-event logic, maternity clothing as well as accessories for all of the above.  

 

This young Australian designer name-drop includes such amazing local talent as Antonia Paris, Corr Blimey,  Delphine & Fabienne, Fine Cloth, Jaime Bettie, Jo Jo Ivory, Kyna, Loop, Love from Koo,  Martina & Richard, Miss Abigail, MJ & Co, Non Fiction, Pizzuto, Robyn Ayres, Runway, Sandy, Siren, Smug Design, Thunder and Lightning, Tutu and Zilpha Tart Femina, Max for Kids, When I Grow Up, Fish Lilly, Hamb, Delphine & Fabienne, Mini Monkey, Rawk n Squark, Mandarin Square, Hoity Toity, Yim, Edwina Bolger and Pish Pesh

 

Every designer has their own dedicated product pages and they’re also cross-referenced with a selection of their range in the various multi-category pages.

 

Since you may have been doing this longer than we have forgive us for the obvious, but here come the instructions: Simply find what you’re looking for. Your selection can be from as many different designers as you wish.  Just drag/drop the item(s) into the one and only shopping basket.  Then you can pay by your preferred credit card (most non-North Korean cards accepted) in one, easy checkout. Once that’s done, a few days patience will bring you and your purchase happily together.

 

Shopping on ClothingStoreOnline.com.au is easy. It may even be fun.  It will certainly leave being a downtown dinosaur for dead. We appreciate that the instant-gratification factor is missing, but think how many bad, bad mistakes you made under the pressure of real-time, real-world shopping.  

 

ClothingStoreOnline.com.au. Go on – see if you don’t love it.

 



Jamie
Paris Hilton
Phyllis Goldberg, Ph.D. asked:


Are you tired of the celebrity driven circus that has been revolving around Paris Hilton? Does the hotel heiress deserve to be behind bars for her flagrant disregard for the law? As a popular media figure, should she be more responsible to set an example for the impressionable teenagers who emulate her?

The Baby Boomers or so called ‘Me Generation,’ on some level, weren’t all that different. They were often seen as egocentric and self absorbed, as having a sense of entitlement. But, along the way, they developed the capacity for self reflection. Now, entering the retirement years, they are serving the greater good and are often referred to as the ‘We Generation.’ Paris Hilton can learn a lesson or two from the changes in their attitudes and behavior:

1. Taking a step back helps you see the situation from a much different angle and develop a new perspective. Listening to your inner voice can provide comfort and reassurance as you recognize how your basic character strengths support you. Focus on what’s important, and try to integrate core values and personal ideals into how you view the world.

2. Let go of your concerns about the present moment and look at the bigger picture. Time passes quickly - use it to your advantage and make different choices about your future. Set new long range goals as well as short term objectives. Commit to a process of change - and then move forward, step by step.

3. Look to satisfying others instead of only giving yourself pleasure. Learn that gratitude is a very powerful emotion. Tell others what you appreciate about them. Watch their positive reaction to what you say and see how that makes you feel.

4. Increase your capacity to be resilient. Releasing tension through humor will help you begin to bounce back. It is not easy to maintain your sense of optimism when the circumstances are complicated. But focus your thoughts on what you can accomplish and manage, rather than on what you cannot.

5. When problems seem just too hard to handle, giving back provides a welcome diversion. Find your true spirit of idealism and make a contribution to those less fortunate. Be generous with your skills and time as you become involved with social activism. Change society for the better and you’ll eventually transform yourself.

Back in jail and feeling a little less vulnerable, Paris Hilton seems to be singing a different tune. She now says that she will serve her time, not cause any more trouble and use her power to make a difference. More spiritual already, she sees herself growing emotionally from her jail experience.

Only time will tell if she is truly ready to roll up her sleeves and be a role model for the young people who look up to her. Instead of focusing on the latest clubbing venues, perhaps she will use her flair for self promotion in a more positive way. Let’s hope so - for her sake and the sake of our children.

© Her Mentor Center, 2007



Tamara